104. How to Change: Building Better Habits and Behaviors (And Getting Out of Your Own Way)

104.如何改变:养成更好的习惯和行为(并走出自己的路)

Think Fast, Talk Smart: Communication Techniques

2023-08-29

23 分钟
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In this podcast episode, Katy Milkman shares how we can make our goals more achievable by making reaching them more enjoyable.

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  • Hi Matt here.

  • If you want to continue finding tools to a successful and happy life, I recommend listening to the happiness lab hosted by Yale professor Doctor Lori Santos.

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  • Based on the psychology course she teaches at Yale, she will take you through the latest scientific research and share some surprising stories that will change the way you think about happiness.

  • This season, shes tackling topics that affect her own life like stress, perfectionism, and boredom.

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  • When it comes to achieving our own personal goals, sometimes the biggest impediment is ourselves.

  • I'm Matt Abrahams and I teach strategic communication at Stanford Graduate School of Business.

  • Welcome to think fast, talk smart, the podcast today I am really excited to speak with Katie Milkman.

  • Katie is a professor at Wharton and co founder and co director of the Behavioral Change for Good Initiative.

  • She hosts the podcast choiceology and is the author of how to change the science of getting from where you are to where you want to be.

  • Katie and I met a little over a year ago when she was so kind to offer advice about authoring my latest book.

  • I'm super excited to continue our conversation here.

  • And Katie, welcome.

  • Thank you so much for having me.

  • I'm really excited to be here.

  • One of the reasons I'm so excited to speak with you is that your work pulls together and synthesizes many of the topics we've discussed here.

  • Before we talked about habits with BJ Fogg, motivation with Suu Kyi Huang, and behavior change with Bob Cialdini.

  • A lot of your work focuses on how we can change and maintain attitudes and behaviors we want to adopt.

  • Before we get into how to do that, I'd like for you to share some of the things that get in the way of realizing these changes that we want.