102. Create a Presence: How to Communicate in a Way Others Can Feel

102.创造存在感:如何以他人能感受到的方式进行沟通

Think Fast, Talk Smart: Communication Techniques

2023-08-15

23 分钟
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In this episode, executive coach Muriel Wilkins shares how the best communicators create a strong presence.

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  • Is incredibly important and powerful in communication, but in order to develop a strong presence, you first have to be present with yourself.

  • I'm Matt Abrahams and I teach strategic communication at Stanford graduate school of business.

  • Welcome to think fast, talk smart, the podcast.

  • Today, I'm excited to speak with Muriel Wilkins.

  • Muriel is an executive coach, author, and podcast host, along with Amy Sue.

  • Muriel wrote the book own the room, discover your signature voice to to master your leadership presence, and she hosts the HBR podcast coaching real leaders.

  • Welcome, Muriel.

  • I am excited for our chat and can't wait to get started.

  • I'm delighted to be here, Matt.

  • Great.

  • Well, let's get going.

  • Like me, you've been a coach for a number of years.

  • In your coaching experience, what are some of the most common communication pitfalls that leaders fall into and how can we avoid them?

  • So I think the ones that I've seen folks struggle with or not even be aware of in terms of their communication techniques are threefold.