91. Um, like, so: How Filler Words Can Create More Connected, Effective Communication

91.嗯,就像,所以:填充词如何创建更紧密、更有效的沟通

Think Fast, Talk Smart: Communication Techniques

2023-05-23

29 分钟
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In this podcast episode, Valerie Fridland explains the meaning we all ascribe to these words and how to use them in your communication.

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  • Hi Matt here.

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  • When we think about the words we use, we tend to focus on making sure we communicate our meaning.

  • But in fact, communicating information about our relationship, our connection, might be even more important.

  • I'm Matt Abrahams and I teach strategic communication at Stanford Graduate School of Business.

  • Welcome to think fast, talk smart, the podcast.

  • Today, I look forward to speaking with Valerie Friedland.

  • Valerie is a professor of sociolinguistics at the University of Nevada in Reno.

  • She is an expert on the relationship between language and society and recently released her new book entitled like literally, dude, arguing for the good in bad English.

  • Welcome, Valerie.

  • I am super excited to dive into our conversation today.

  • Well, thanks, Matt.

  • I'm really excited to talk with you.

  • Great.

  • And I love that I just get to say, dude, like I used to say, growing up in northern California near Santa Cruz, I'd like to get started with a high level question.

  • What is the purpose of language and how does it relate to and reveal who we are?