Hey, it's your friend Mel, and welcome to the Mel Robbins Podcast.
Have you ever had someone in your life that you really wish would change?
You know, you just wish that they would get motivated and lose £20 or £50, or stop at one glass of wine.
My husband, for example, he wishes I wouldn't use so many F bombs after I've had a drink.
Maybe you wish that the person that you love would get motivated and find a new job, a better job.
Or you wish that they just dressed a little nicer, you know, took some pride in how they look.
Forget dying with dignity.
Let's just try to live with some dignity.
Or maybe you wish that they would pick up their clothes.
Why do the clothes need to be everywhere?
Or maybe you wish that they would go to therapy and get help with depression.
You wish they wouldn't spend their weekends indoors playing video games or just scrolling away on social media.
I mean, you've tried everything.
You've tried being nice.
You've maybe even sent some of these podcast episodes to them.
Every week you wake up on Monday and you're really, really like you're trying to be supportive.
Tuesday, you get a little bossy.
Could you pick up your clothes, for crying out loud?
On Wednesday, you're complaining to your friends because you don't want to talk to them about it on Thursday.
Now you're bringing in the self help speech.