How creating space for joy can build resilience (with Miracle Jones)

创造欢乐空间如何建立韧性(与奇迹琼斯合作)

How to Be a Better Human

自我完善

2021-12-14

33 分钟
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With all the terrible things happening in the world lately, does the idea of maintaining a spark of joy in your day to day feel unrealistic? Or even inappropriate? Today’s guest, Miracle Jones, believes that all the collective tragedy makes the role of joy in our routines even more crucial. She is a community organizer and queer activist who currently serves as the director of policy and advocacy at 1Hood Media. In today’s episode, Miracle meditates on the importance of joy as a catalyst for resilience, growth, and collective action, and shares how we can cultivate its practice even (and perhaps especially) in the darkest of times. You can learn more about Miracle’s work at 1hood.org. To learn more about "How to Be a Better Human," host Chris Duffy, or find footnotes and additional resources, please visit: go.ted.com/betterhuman

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  • Ted audio collective, you're listening to how to be a better human.

  • I'm your host, Chris Duffy.

  • When I was growing up, my dad worked in the World Trade center, so that means that he was there for the bombing in 1993, and he just barely missed the last subway to make it into the Twin Towers on September 11.

  • I remember in 1993, on the night of the bomb, when my dad finally came home, he was standing in the doorway.

  • His face was jet black with soot.

  • His suit was covered in ash.

  • He looked so preposterous standing there.

  • He looked like a kind of overdressed chimney sweep.

  • And we burst into laughter as we ran in relief to hug him.

  • Years later, after I graduated college, I moved to Cambridge, Massachusetts, and I was teaching fifth grade during the day and performing comedy at night.

  • And I was in Boston on the day of the marathon bombings.

  • And that night we sheltered in place as we heard sirens in the street and helicopters overhead.

  • Its probably the only time ive ever thought that I was doing something brave by eating an entire pot of spaghetti while sitting on the floor in my underwear.

  • You know, as a comedian, my first instinct is to want to make jokes about things.

  • But when terrible things happen in the world, sometimes comedy feels irrelevant or even inappropriate.

  • Really, how can I go out and make jokes when theres blood on the ground, ignoring that kind of naked human suffering?

  • It feels offensive to try and make people laugh.

  • It feels wrong.

  • Im not sure that words can ever really do justice to the horrors of violence or oppression or a pandemic, but I do think that one of the most important functions of art more broadly is to communicate what we cant express otherwise.

  • And the more that I think about and live through acts of terror and moments of tragedy, the more that I do think that laughter and joy in their wake, they arent inappropriate.