[MUSIC]
Anna Martin: Last year, I was seeing this guy I called The Bartender.
And I was in a place where I was looking for something serious.
And pretty much from the jump,
I could tell that he was not.
He would take days to respond to my text messages.
We would hang out, like, once every three weeks.
It just — it wasn't really going anywhere.
So finally, I was like, you know what?
I'm going to end it.
And I wrote him something like,
you know, this has been fun,
but it's clear to me that we're looking for different things.
And it took him around 48 to 72 hours to respond,
because it always did.
And he replied, I think you're right.
It's too hard to make something work
when we live on opposite sides of the world.
This guy does not live in Australia.
He lives around 40 minutes away on public transportation,