How Effective Are Ultimatums? (Replay)

最后通牒有多有效? (重播)

No Stupid Questions

社会与文化

2024-07-07

36 分钟
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How final is a final offer, really? Does anonymity turn nice people into jerks? And should you tell your crush that you dreamed about marrying them?

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  • Hi, NSQ listeners.

  • This week we're bringing you one of our favorite episodes from the NSQ archive, one of the first episodes featuring Mike and Angela.

  • We hope you enjoy this conversation, and we'll be back next week with a brand new episode of the show.

  • That's so much to have to remember.

  • I'm Angela Duckworth.

  • I'm Mike Mon, and you're listening to.

  • No stupid questions today on the show.

  • Do ultimatums really work?

  • Look, I've got 48 hours invested in this relationship, and I just need to know, are we going to the alter or not?

  • Mike, I have a question from a listener named Signy, and it's about ultimatums.

  • You only have one choice.

  • You were either gonna take my offer to listen to this question, or I'm never gonna talk to you again.

  • This is a serious ultimatum already.

  • Look, I'm gonna accept, though.

  • I don't love how you just did that.

  • Signy writes, do ultimatums really work?

  • I frequently wonder if those who pose ultimatums end up happy with the results, whether it's at work or in someone's personal life, do we really get what we want?

  • Is the promotion slash raid everything it's cracked up to be, or do they end up quitting anyway?

  • Or.

  • Yes, they got a ring on their finger, but the marriage doesn't last.