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Hi, I'm calling from San Francisco.
I wanted to learn how to be less judgmental.
I realized this has likely gotten in the way of me forming deeper and better relationship and I would like to learn how to quiet that part of myself.
Thanks.
Welcome to how to the show where listeners call us with our toughest questions and we find the perfect person to give them guidance.
I'm Courtney Martin.
From a young age, we're taught that being judgmental is an undesirable trait, a flaw.
It's associated with being mean.
If you're on the receiving end of a cutting remark or a sneering glance, it can be devastating.