2024-12-01
35 分钟Hello, and welcome back to Advice Session, a series here on Anything Goes where you send in your current dilemmas or anything that you want advice on, and I give you my unprofessional advice.
And today's topic is dating complications.
Dating and romance and love can be absolutely incredible.
But as with all things that can be absolutely incredible, it can also be miserable and challenging and complicated and confusing.
And that's what we're going to be discussing today, the complicated side of dating and romance and love.
Without further ado, let's begin.
Somebody said, I can't develop any feelings for any dates or any guys that I've met recently.
Is it me?
This is such a frustrating feeling, and I deeply relate to it because I've been there many times.
I feel like there is this pressure to go on dates and feel things relatively quickly.
Like, okay, if you go on five dates, there's this expectation, like, at least one of those should work.
But it's not that simple.
There's no predictable outcome, right?
You might go on 100 dates and not click with any of those people, and that is neither your fault or theirs.
Whether you click with someone or not is arguably up to the cosmos.
You know what I mean?
It's written in the stars.
It couldn't be less of your fault or their fault.
It's no one's fault.
It's just how it is.