We go on dating apps in hopes to find someone we are compatible with. You match up with someone you think is attractive, and you set up a date to meet. The conversations are great, the vibe is right, and there are NO red flags. BUT WHY DA FU*K DON'T YOU FEEL ANYTHING? Because It's not a match. James and I went on a date last year (he was my very first Hinge date) and we openly admit the lack of romantic chemistry we have and why we decided to keep things platonic. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices