I wasn't going to post this episode, only because I felt like "Bobby" didn't deserve any more of my attention. Now that I have taken some time alone, I reminded myself that I'm not doing this for him or for any other man. I do this sh*t for me. Dating is trial & error. We put ourselves out there & we keep our options open. Unfortunately, hearts will get broken and rejection will happen. In this case, my self-esteem was shut down when "Bobby" ended things with me to be with someone else. My head was spinning and I started to feel like I wasn't good enough for anyone. Moments like this is when you need to have your friends around to remind you of the boss a*s bitch that you are. Thank you, Rose. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices