I believe masturbation is self love and self care, but there's a stigma around it that makes (some) people feel ashamed. I struggle with this. Growing up in a strict religious household has made me feel uncomfortable of the idea for years. I'm trying to shake that off, because it's a beautiful thing to understand and love your own body. Since Jafra always talks to me about masturbation, it was appropriate to share with her my own insecurities. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices