Most of the time on this show, the perspective comes from a heterosexual's point of view. I was inspired by the last episode, "Gender Roles" and noticed how Sixelaafiercee and I only spoke on a one sided frame of reference. How about the gay community? There's always this talk about the importance of "gender roles", but how does it come to play in a relationship when both parties are of the same gender? Do gender roles even matter? I'm curious to know the dynamic, so I invited Richard (a "power bottom") onto the pod to further explain how the dynamic of dating, sex, and relationships work in the community of gay men. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices