My weight is my biggest insecurity, and it plays a huge part of the difficulties I have with dating and having sex. "Does he like thick or fat women?" is the first question I ask myself when I'm interested in someone. Maybe that's why I feel more comfortable going for a thicker dude vs someone who is a lot slimmer than me. That's so fu*king twisted, and I don't want to feel that way anymore. Because who cares?????? It also frustrates me when I hear or see people body shame another person. If anything, it shows me how insecure you are. Why do you care so much? Maybe work on yourself first before putting down other people. "Kiss my fat ass" - Tyra Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices