For the most part, we have all been through a "hoe phase". There is no shame in the hoe game, if anything, it builds character. Steff came to a conclusion during her time being celibate that she's never really experienced sex in a liberating way. She invites her friend Jafra on da pod to teach her the rules on how to master "The Hoe Phase". Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices