Let’s be honest, parenting is the most guilt-ridden, shaming role on the planet. Which is why a nagging question seems to live under the surface of our very full lives, “Am I doing a good job with my kids?” In this episode, Josh and Christi talk about what really matters when it comes to getting the outcomes we most desire in our kids. They also define emotional safety, talk about why parenting is the wrong term, and get honest about what our kids really need from us. Time Stamps: 0:00 Introduction 1:15 Behavior versus character 3:53 Why emotional safety in parenting was the heart of how Famous at Home began 9:00 You’re child is not the only one 10:55 How to show up with your kids in their BIG feelings 13:10 The single greatest conclusion of parenting research 17:21 Parenting styles and the Holy Spirit 20:00 Marital satisfaction and parenting 20:52 How do you act as a child? Why we have to play the long game. 22:10 Research on emotion coaching kids 23:45 Navigating judgment and your own healing as a parent 28:45 The two filters Josh is using to parent his kids 31:17 The single greatest parenting strategy for raising kids Show Notes: Sign up for the January 2025 Tender & Fierce Cohort! Sign up here. https://www.famousathome.com/tenderandfierce Men, interested in The Field Experience? Join the interest list! https://www.famousathome.com/mensinterestform Order a copy of the Famous at Home book to put your family center stage. Click here: https://amzn.to/3y1jJFz Order a copy of Safe House: Why Emotional Safety is the Key to Raising Kids Who Live, Love, and Lead Well https://amzn.to/3Zpeui5 Download NONAH's brand new single Find My Way Home by clicking here: https://bellpartners.ffm.to/findmywayhome The Famous at Home podcast is made possible by listeners like you. We'd be honored to have you partner with us in helping bring revival to today's family. Click here to donate. https://newhorizonsfoundation.com/project/single-project/2504/