In this solo episode, Jess shares her reflections on a recent conversation she had. The conversation was about whether or not children should hear the word "no" and how parents who follow "this new wave of gentle parenting" are no longer the leaders in their homes. In the episode, Jess shares her thoughts on this view and tackles a common misconception about gentle parenting - that it's too permissive and doesn't allow for setting boundaries. She explains the crucial differences between permissive, authoritarian, and authoritative parenting styles, emphasizing that effective discipline combines warmth with firm boundaries. Jess shares her expert knowledge and advice on: * Why it's important and loving to say "no" to children * How to be a calm leader for kids during challenging moments * How setting boundaries helps kids learn to navigate disappointment * How setting boundaries teaches kids to question authority appropriately With relatable examples and research-backed information, this episode provides valuable guidance for parents seeking to strike the right balance between empathy and structure. Jess mentions an episode with her friend Josh, and you can listen to that episode here. [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/as-a-skeptic-husband-i-couldnt-see-the-value-in/id1740816838?i=1000669677881] If you want to learn more about the different parenting styles Jess talks about in the episode, check out this blog post [https://nurturedfirst.com/which-parenting-style-is-the-best/]. You'll also find the research Jess refers to referenced at the end of the blog. Get 10% OFF parenting courses and kids' printable activities at Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/courses/] using the code ROBOTUNICORN. We'd love to hear from you! Have questions you want us to answer on Robot Unicorn? Send us an email: podcast@robotunicorn.net. Learn more about the Solving Bedtime Battles course here [https://nurturedfirst.com/courses/solving-bedtime-battles/]. Credits: Editing by The Pod Cabin [https://thepodcabin.com/] Artwork by Wallflower Studio [https://www.wallflowerstudio.co/] Production by Nurtured First [https://nurturedfirst.com/]