On this episode we talk about pacing yourself when dated to give yourself time to see exactly who someone is. It is no benefit to us to move fast when taking our time could not only lead to the same results but more than likely better results. Pacing your love because not everyone deserves it and sometimes we have so much of it to give too much of our love to people who are only there to use us up. Taking your time when your dating and getting to know someone and asking yourself what is being invested in this dating phase Is it just quality time? Conversation? Romance? Is it consideration and thoughtfulness Is it being intentional ? What have they communicated that they are looking for or what their intentions are when with dating?