Values Course “Sync Up: Aligning Values & Vision For Lasting Love” now available! Get registered here: https://stan.store/masteryourmarriage/p/in-sync-together-aligning-values--vision "Are we even speaking the same language?" In this episode, Robert and Sharla Snow discuss the miscommunications that can occur in relationships and how different speaking and listening styles contribute to these misunderstandings. They explain the differences between inferential and literal listeners and speakers, and the challenges that can arise when these styles clash. The hosts emphasize the importance of clear communication and making explicit requests to avoid misinterpretations. They also encourage couples to eliminate the expectation that their partner should just know their needs and instead appreciate when their requests are met. Overall, the episode provides practical tips for improving communication and preventing miscommunications in relationships. Takeaways Different speaking and listening styles can lead to miscommunications in relationships. Inferential listeners infer meaning from what is said, while literal listeners take words at face value. Inferential speakers imply or hint at their needs, while literal speakers are direct. It is important to recognize and understand your own speaking and listening style, as well as your partner's. Clear communication and explicit requests can help prevent misinterpretations. Eliminate the expectation that your partner should just know your needs and instead appreciate when they respond to your requests. Be grateful for your partner's efforts to connect and meet your needs, even if you have to ask for it. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview 06:12 Understanding Listening Styles 12:41 Different Speaking Styles 23:26 The Importance of Clear Communication 27:30 Eliminating the Expectation of Mind Reading 31:11 Conclusion and Call to Action Mentioned in this episode: Yearly Goal-Setting Workbook for Couples Yearly Goal-Setting Workbook for Couples: Create Your Strongest Year Yet as a Couple Get Intentional With Your Relationship in 2025: Download our exact blueprint to aligning your values and planning your year, with our 2025 Yearly Couples Planning & Alignment Workbook—just $19. BONUS OFFER: Purchase before January 1, 2025 and receive an exclusive invitation to join us live where we will answer all your questions at our OWN planning retreat on January 4th! Get a behind-the-scenes look at exactly how we use these same tools in our own marriage -every year.