Why I kept a teen diary

为什么我要写青少年日记

The Conversation

社会与文化

2024-12-30

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What do Audre Lorde, Pamela Anderson and Florence Nightingale all have in common? They all began writing diaries as young girls and remained seasoned diarists later in life. But what purpose does keeping a diary as a teenager serve? And what can reflecting on the intimate accounts our younger selves wrote, tell us about who we are today and the changing world around us? Ifedayo Agoro is a Nigerian entrepreneur who began writing a diary at the age of eleven. The habit began after she got into trouble at school, and wrote her mother a letter to explain what had happened. As punishment, her mother asked Ifedayo to pen a letter every week in a diary, and Ifedayo documented life as a young girl in the Shogunle neighbourhood of Lagos. This punishment soon became a joy and in 2015 Ifedayo wrote an anonymous online diary called Diary Of A Naija Girl. Five years later, she put her name to the diary and it now has 740,000 followers on Instagram. Sophie Duker is a British comedian and writer. She is currently touring Europe with her stand-up show, But Daddy I Love Her, inspired by the concept of delusion. Sophie began writing an online diary at the age of 14, capturing matters of emotional significance such as her parent’s divorce, her father moving from the UK and her first encounter with grief. These profound milestones are interwoven with the everyday highs and lows of being a British teenager: crushes on the Harry Potter cast and encounters with school bullies. Produced by Elena Angelides and Jane Thurlow Image: (L) Ifedayo Agoro credit Buklaw Photography. (R) Sophie Duker credit Sarah Harry-Isaacs.)
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  • Hello, I'm Dashiani Navanaigam and welcome to the conversation from the BBC World Service, the programme which brings together two exceptional women from around the world to share their personal stories and insights with each other and us.

  • Now, before we begin, a question.

  • What does the feminist writer, poet and civil rights activist Audre Lorde have in common with with the former Baywatch actor and model Pamela Anderson and the English nurse and social reformer Florence Nightingale?

  • Well, they might seem like an incongruous grouping, but these three women all began writing diaries as young girls and remain seasoned diarists in later life, a trait they share with both my guests today and myself.

  • So what purpose does keeping a diary as a teenager serve?

  • I'm joined by Ifedeo Ogoro, a Nigerian entrepreneur and who began writing a diary at the age of 11, documenting her life as a young girl in the Shogonle neighbourhood of lagos.

  • Later in 2015, EFE started an anonymous online diary called Diary of a Niger Girl.

  • And joining me in the studio is British comedian Sophie Duker, who is currently touring with her stand up show But Daddy, I Love her.

  • Inspired by joint therapy sessions with her father, Sophie started writing an online diary at the age of 14, capturing matters of emotional significance, like her parents divorce and her father's move from the uk interwoven with the everyday highs and lows of being a British teenager.

  • Ife and Sophie, a very warm welcome to you both.

  • Hello.

  • Hello.

  • Thank you.

  • Thank you so much.

  • Thank you for having us.

  • Ife and Sophie.

  • Now, look, I don't know a lot of people personally who started a diary as a young girl and wrote consistently, but this is definitely something that the three of us share in common.

  • And I can still remember the day I started my diary and it was quite an innocuous beginning.

  • So I'd seen Bridget Jones diary, the film, three times in the cinema back in 2001, and I was so enamored by it that I went out, got myself a lined notebook and I started writing.