Rebroadcast: Esther Perel on the real reasons couples fight

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  Hey there, it's Shamita.

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  Happy New Year.

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  This week we're bringing you an episode from our archives.

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  I hope you enjoy

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  this is in conversation from Apple News.

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  I'm Shemitha Basu.

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  Today, a renowned couples therapist on how to figure out what you're actually fighting about.

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  Is the most well known couples therapist in the world.

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  She's written best selling books about relationships and infidelity.

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  She's given TED talks with tens of millions of views.

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  And she has a podcast, where should we Begin?

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  Where you get to hear her sitting down with real couples, helping them work through their issues.

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  He thinks he's been the one saying to you always, things will be all right, I'll take care of it.

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  If you want to bring back the mature adult woman you just met,

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  mediated by the affair, you need to tell him, let me take care of you.

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  Yeah.

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  And even if you don't ask now, I have more material to see what's going on.

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  I can make that step without me waiting for you to ask.

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  Part of what makes Esther so good,

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  so talented is that she's got this almost surgical precision in being able to identify what's really driving a fight.

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