Together apart. Commuter marriages on the rise!

分开在一起。 通勤婚姻呈上升趋势!

Round Table China

社会与文化

2025-01-08

24 分钟
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Traditionally, being married typically meant living in the same house and city. However, a new study explores the rise of long-distance "commuter marriages" in China, driven by career aspirations or financial objectives. Couples in these arrangements often choose to live apart; while some may see each other once a week, others might only reunite during major holidays. What factors contribute to this trend, and is it sustainable? On the show: Niu Honglin, Ding Heng & Steve Hatherly.

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  • Discussion keeps the world turning.

  • This is Roundtable.

  • Hello, welcome to Roundtable, where we serve up piping hot debates on the issues that sizzle in China and beyond.

  • I'm Liu Hong Lin.

  • They say distance makes the heart grow fonder.

  • But for some couples, it also makes the rent cheaper and career growth faster.

  • Living apart might sound like a romantic subplot from a sitcom, but for a growing number of young Chinese couples, it's their everyday reality.

  • The question is, are they living apart for a brighter future together?

  • Or does this compromise test the very foundations of their marriages?

  • For today's show, I'm joined by Ding Heng and Steve Hatherley.

  • Now grab your virtual compass and follow us to the heart of the discussion.

  • In a society where marriage often comes with the unspoken promise of daily companionship, more Chinese couples are choosing to rewrite the script.

  • By living in different cities, they are challenging traditional norms.

  • But are they also testing the limits of love and connection?

  • A new study examines the rise of long distance commuter marriages in China.

  • Driven by career and financial goals, they choose to live apart and only meet on weekends and holidays sometimes.

  • Will you choose commuter marriages?

  • What are the challenges faced by these couples?

  • So let's first talk a little bit about the new report.

  • What are some key findings?