Throwing good parties and building community (w/ Priya Parker)

举办精彩的聚会并建设社区(与 Priya Parker 合作)

How to Be a Better Human

自我完善

2025-01-13

38 分钟
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Many of us are entering the new year with a similar goal — to build community and connect more with others. To kick off season five, Priya Parker shares ideas on how to be the host with the most. An expert on building connection, Priya is the author of “The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters.” Whether it's a book club, wedding, birthday or niche-and-obscurely themed party, Priya and Chris talk about how to create meaningful and fun experiences for all of your guests — including yourself. For the full text transcript, visit go.ted.com/BHTranscripts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  • You're listening to how to Be a Better Human.

  • I am your host, Chris Duffy, and this is the first episode of season five of our show.

  • Thank you so much for listening.

  • I am so, so, so glad that we are back on today's episode.

  • We're going to be talking about what it means to gather together and to gather well.

  • And that feels to me like a very appropriate topic for our first episode back because what does it mean to reunite with you, the listeners?

  • What does our audio podcast Coming Back Together Party look like?

  • I'm kind of joking, but I'm kind of not regardless of that.

  • More importantly, what does it look like when you get together in person with your friends or your family or your co workers or even with strangers?

  • How do you do that in a way that is fun and meaningful, but also builds relationships?

  • In my life, I've been to a few parties that were so fun and unique that I will think about them forever.

  • One example is my friend Will once hosted a dinner party where everyone was only allowed to bring different types of soups and then after eating a bunch of soup, we all went home before 9pm to me, oh, that was a perfect event.

  • A truly perfect dinner party.

  • Now I've also been to some absolutely horrendous awkward events where I have felt so self conscious and uncomfortable that I thought that I might explode.

  • One time I went to this party where the host was trying an experiment, I guess.

  • So we were forbidden to make small talk with any of the other guests there.

  • But the thing is, we didn't know any of the other guests either.

  • So everyone just ended up sitting silently in this kind of like foyer waiting room while we were waiting for more instructions.

  • It was truly excruciating.

  • Now today's guest, Priya Parker, is the author of the book the Art of Gathering.