Moment 200: Love Expert Reveals Why 80% Of Modern Relationships Fail

第200分钟:爱情专家揭秘为何80%的现代关系失败

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

社会与文化

2025-02-14

10 分钟
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We give our best energy to work, but what about our relationships? In this moment, Esther Perel reveals how small moments of disconnection—like looking at your phone instead of your partner—can erode intimacy over time. Discover how to bring attention, creativity, and presence back into your relationships before it’s too late. Listen to the full episode here - Spotify- https://g2ul0.app.link//qmlJPkdxXQb Apple - https://g2ul0.app.link//TgMnzfgxXQb Watch the Episodes On Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/c/%20TheDiaryOfACEO/videos Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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  • Our relationships, you know, I think we all certainly.

  • I think I have for much of my life.

  • And I say that because I look at my actions.

  • So what I might say is different to how I think I've behaved over the last,

  • I don't know, 10, 10, 15 years.

  • We see them as kind of an afterthought to everything else in many regards.

  • So the amount of effort I put into my businesses and to the podcast into every little detail,

  • the creativity,

  • the thought, the brainstorming, all of that relationships, we kind of all just think they're.

  • They just happen.

  • And if it doesn't happen perfectly, then it's broken and I need to find a new one.

  • Yeah, that's a terrible way to think.

  • I mean, and everybody knows it.

  • If you give the best of yourself at work, if you bring the leftovers home, if when you come home,

  • you say, I've given everything I had, now I'm just putting my feet on the table.

  • I just need to chill.

  • I don't want to make any effort.

  • You know, slowly your relationship degrades, period.

  • And then there's all kinds of ways it ends.

  • None of them are particularly joyful.