2025-02-14
10 分钟Our relationships, you know, I think we all certainly.
I think I have for much of my life.
And I say that because I look at my actions.
So what I might say is different to how I think I've behaved over the last,
I don't know, 10, 10, 15 years.
We see them as kind of an afterthought to everything else in many regards.
So the amount of effort I put into my businesses and to the podcast into every little detail,
the creativity,
the thought, the brainstorming, all of that relationships, we kind of all just think they're.
They just happen.
And if it doesn't happen perfectly, then it's broken and I need to find a new one.
Yeah, that's a terrible way to think.
I mean, and everybody knows it.
If you give the best of yourself at work, if you bring the leftovers home, if when you come home,
you say, I've given everything I had, now I'm just putting my feet on the table.
I just need to chill.
I don't want to make any effort.
You know, slowly your relationship degrades, period.
And then there's all kinds of ways it ends.
None of them are particularly joyful.