2024-06-26
1 小时 39 分钟probably a lot of our early blow-ups, maybe that had a lot to do with this idea of feeling psychologically unsafe.
Well, he said there was three, he said there was three stages and I think we've always,
always been okay with making mistakes and stuff like that.
But I think the last stage he said was challenging each other without becoming defensive.
And I don't think that that aspect of psychological safety was, was present early on.
Yeah, we would get defensive and would take things like as personal jabs.
Totally.
Right.
Yeah.
And that's where I come in and try to facilitate.
And then there was, but the time that I got, the time that I actually walked out was actually because of Howie, right?
So, so of all the peacemaking he did, he also, he inflicted the most damage I literally like walked out.
I was like, okay, I don't need this shit.
But I think that's maybe one of the flaws and the idea of like,
do on to others, like how you would want to be done to yourself.
Is that how you even say it?
I feel like I try again, do on to others, how you would thought to be done to no safety.
But you know what I mean?
Whereas like, I felt like, okay, if people can treat me that way, I can treat other people that way.
And that's not always the case, because you have to be careful of how you're coming across,