The emotions you’ve felt but never named with John Koenig

你感受过却未曾用约翰·科宁格的词汇命名的情感

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2025-03-04

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Have you heard of the word sonder? It’s the realization that each “random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own.” John Koenig introduced it in his book The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows—a compilation of new words aiming to capture the nuance and complexity of emotions that can be hard to put a finger on. In this vocabulary-expanding episode, John and Adam explore the sense of loss upon finishing a great book or movie, the dread of chasing a dream, and the awe of human existence. They discuss John’s method and motivation for inventing new words and consider the profound capacity for language to show people that they’re not alone. For the full text transcript, visit go.ted.com/RWAGscripts Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  • I wish that intimacy could be the other way.

  • Like, I wish I could find out people's deepest, darkest secrets.

  • And then over years, as we build up trust, I could learn what their name is.

  • Hey, everyone, it's Adam Grant.

  • Welcome back to Rethinking my podcast

  • on the science of what makes us tick with the TED Audio Collective.

  • I'm an organizational psychologist,

  • and I'm taking you inside the minds of fascinating people to explore new thoughts

  • and new ways of thinking.

  • My guest today is John Koenig, a writer, graphic designer, video creator, and voice actor.

  • John's the author of the Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows,

  • where he coined a series of emotion words that brilliantly describe human experiences

  • that had previously escaped the English language.

  • If I didn't have little labels to help me remember certain things,

  • it's clouds in darkness in your head, basically.

  • But if you have a word, you can just put a little handle on it somehow,

  • through some mysterious magic process of language in the brain,

  • and then you can share it with people.

  • I'm so excited to have a chance to talk to you.

  • I have read so many words and sentences and paragraphs where my first thought is,