Dr. Lindsay Gibson on What We Owe Our 'Emotionally Immature' Parents

林赛·吉布森博士谈我们欠“情感不成熟”父母的债

The Interview

社会与文化

2025-03-22

43 分钟
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The clinical psychologist explains the foundations of egocentric parental behavior, the impact it has on their children and the freedom of saying “no.”
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