'The Interview': Dr. Lindsay Gibson on What We Owe Our 'Emotionally Immature' Parents

《访谈》:林赛·吉布森博士谈我们欠“情感不成熟”父母的债

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2025-03-22

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The clinical psychologist explains the foundations of egocentric parental behavior, the impact it has on their children and the freedom of saying “no.”
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  • From the New York Times, this is the interview.

  • I'm David Marchese.

  • There's a poem by Philip Larkin called this Be the Verse, and it's been buzzing around in the back of my mind the entire time I've been working on today's interview.

  • The poem starts like this, though literary fans will know I'm swapping in a clean word for a foul one.

  • They mess you up, your mom and dad.

  • They may not mean to, but they do.

  • They fill you with the faults they and add some extra just for you.

  • That rings true for me.

  • And I bet I'm not alone.

  • But what do we do with that knowledge?

  • For help answering that question, a lot of people have turned to the work of clinical psychologist Lindsay C. Gibson.

  • Her book Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents has been a slow burning bestseller with over a million copies sold since it was published in 2015.