214: Working with High Intensity after an Affair with Shane Birkel

214:与肖恩·伯克尔发生关系后高强度工作

The Couples Therapist Couch

社会科学

2024-06-11

24 分钟
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Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/ Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new In this solo episode, Shane breaks down how to work with high intensity after an affair. This topic stems from a question that came up in the Couples Therapist Inner Circle. Hear how to help clients recover after an affair, the emotions both partners are going through, how long it typically takes people to recover from an affair, how to get someone to stop having affairs, and how to help a client avoid getting into a shame spiral. Join The Couples Therapist Couch Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/295562197518469/
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  • It's not just a matter of, oops, I made a mistake, I'm sorry, it's so much deeper than that.

  • And oftentimes they say

  • that it takes two to five years to recover from an affair because of the traumatic experience of the person who's been betrayed.

  • Welcome to the couples therapist couch, the podcast for couples therapists,

  • marriage counselors and relationship coaches to explore the practice of couples therapy.

  • And now your host, Shane Burkle.

  • Everybody.

  • Welcome back to the couples therapist couch.

  • This is Shane Burkle and this is the podcast that's all about the practice of couples therapy.

  • Thank you so much for tuning in.

  • I often,

  • I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist and I often interview experts in the world of couples therapy to bring you the best information possible about what works in relationships,

  • what works for couples.

  • And today I'm going to talk about a question when there has been an affair and you're doing the affair recovery process,

  • when one partner is bringing a lot of anger into that situation.

  • And before I do that, if, if you haven't joined the coup therapist couch Facebook group,

  • push pause on listening to the podcast, open up Facebook,

  • go to the search bar,

  • type in couples therapist couch and you can find the group where there's over 6,000 other therapists having conversations about the practice of couples therapy.

  • So if that is something you're, you might be interested in checking out, push pause right now.