195. Can You Be Too Nice?

No Stupid Questions

社会与文化

2024-05-12

38 分钟
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Where is the line between a good guy and a doormat? Do people with sharp elbows make more money? And why did Angela’s mother give away her birthday present? Take the Big Five inventory: freakonomics.com/bigfive

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  • I don't even know how to respond to that.

  • I'm Angela Duckworth.

  • I'm Mike Mon, and you're listening to.

  • No stupid questions today on the show.

  • Can you be too agreeable?

  • What can I do to help you solve your problem?

  • Hello, Angela.

  • We are on our fourth personality trait of the big five.

  • These have gone fast.

  • Oh, my gosh.

  • Three down.

  • Here we go.

  • So, today we are talking about agreeableness, right?

  • And we have a great question to set this up.

  • Hi, NSQ.

  • It's really important to me to be kind and empathetic.

  • I volunteer.

  • I donate to many charities and nonprofits, and I try to give everyone I meet the benefit of the doubt.

  • I don't regret any of these behaviors, but I've been taken advantage of many times because of them.

  • Friends always know that I'll help out when they need help moving or want a ride home from the airport, but they are suddenly busy when it's time to reciprocate.