What is the relationship between “catastrophizing” and anxiety? How did Angela react when her mother came close to drowning? And how can you gain perspective when the worst-case scenario is all you can visualize?
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I'm Angela Duckworth.
I'm Stephen Dubner, and you're listening to.
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How can you stop catastrophizing?
I think you hate me.
I think I'm a bad person.
I think this is the end of our friendship and our working relationship.
Angela, I think of all the people I know, you are the least likely person to catastrophize, which is a word I did not know until recently.
I think, Steven, by catastrophizing, you mean making a mountain out of a molehill?
Is that what you mean?
Correct.
I'd read this article in the Guardian by a clinical psychologist named Linda Blair.
Not the Linda Blair from the Exorcist.
I'm pretty sure it's not the same Linda Blair.
But according to this definition, catastrophizing is what happens when you hear some, as she puts it, uncertain news, and then you imagine the worst possible outcome.
So I can imagine that if a person were to consistently do this, it would be really damaging.
I could imagine that you are someone who does not do this.
So I wanted to ask you today whether there's someone out there who does this all the time, or even a little bit.
I'm curious what your advice would be to manage this.