85. Is Emotional Intelligence Really So Important?

No Stupid Questions

社会与文化

2022-02-06

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Can you quantify emotional intelligence? Who should you hire — someone smart, or someone good with people? And how did Angie do on an online emotional intelligence test?
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  • So sorry, I've forgotten the actual question.

  • I'm Angela Duckworth.

  • I'm Steven Dubner, and you're listening to.

  • No stupid questions today on the show.

  • How important is emotional intelligence, really?

  • You're having a performance review, and the person that you're giving the feedback to breaks out in tears and starts crying uncontrollably.

  • What do you do next?

  • Slap them hard across the face.

  • Angela, do you care about politics at all?

  • Not at all.

  • Okay, good.

  • That's two of us.

  • I have a question that's kind of about politics, but I think it plays into your strengths beautifully.

  • And the question is as follows.

  • We have a new mayor in New York City.

  • His name is Eric Adams, and he has said that as he assembles his administration, the number one criterion he's relying on to make appointments is emotional intelligence.

  • And my gut reaction was that it's probably a great idea, but my question for you is, is emotional intelligence a, a truly real, quantifiable quality, like, is it a thing?

  • Is it a thing that can be measured and relied upon?

  • And B, assuming the answer to a is yes, is it so good that it should be the number one hiring criterion?

  • Okay, I'm going to punt a little bit on whether this should be the number one criterion, but I do want to say that emotional intelligence is a thing.