23. Is It Wrong to Crave Praise?

No Stupid Questions

社会与文化

2020-10-18

38 分钟
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Also: should everyone have their own trauma score?

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  • I'd be sitting in a mud hut and then there'd be a Viking ride up and he'd put a hatchet through my skull.

  • I'm Angela Duckworth.

  • I'm Steven Dubner and you're listening to.

  • No stupid questions today on the show.

  • How does praise affect the human psyche?

  • Oh, God, your guts are just so great.

  • Love ya.

  • Also, how do you measure psychological trauma?

  • Don't immediately start drinking too late.

  • Steven, I have been wondering about praise lately.

  • I'm teaching undergraduates and at the end of every class I have them rate me on a scale from zero, total waste of my time to ten.

  • Can I just say, I'm glad you include zero?

  • Because scales of one to ten feel dishonest.

  • Dishonest?

  • What do you mean?

  • Why?

  • It's like, what if I think you're worse than one?

  • Oh, you want to give people the full range to express themselves.

  • I would rarely grade someone a total zero, but there is a phrase, total zero.

  • The reason I have it zero to ten is because it's very clear that a zero is bad.