13. How Can You Stop Comparing Yourself With Other People?

No Stupid Questions

社会与文化

2020-08-09

33 分钟
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Also: how can we stop confusing correlation with causation?

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  • I think I'm about to ask a truly stupid question.

  • There are actually stupid questions.

  • I'm Angela Duckworth.

  • I'm Stephen Dubner, and you're listening to.

  • No stupid questions today on the show.

  • Comparing yourself with others can be emotionally damaging.

  • So how can we stop doing it?

  • Isn't that interesting that when I clicked on my Amazon ranking, I immediately went to his Amazon ranking?

  • Also, how can we stop confusing correlation with causation?

  • If he hadn't been blinded in his left eye, he never would have become a scientist.

  • Angela Duckworth, Steven Dugner.

  • So I've not read deeply on the following topic.

  • I'm guessing you have.

  • But what I have read suggests that it is a bad idea to constantly compare yourself to other people.

  • So assuming that is bad, you know, tell me if I'm wrong.

  • But assuming that is bad, how can I stop?

  • I think it is often bad to compare yourself to other people.

  • And maybe I would go so far as to say usually bad, but it's basic human instinct, and that means we should ask ourselves first, why do we do that?

  • Because anytime we instinctively do something, there's usually a function behind it.

  • Okay, why do we do that?