Redux: Trust Your Body

Dear Sugars

情感与人际关系

2023-08-26

41 分钟
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Her grandmother always introduced her as the “chubby one.” Now, she vacillates between moderation and binge-eating. “It’s only when my pants are nearly impossible to button that I force myself to lose weight,” writes the letter-writer who calls herself Body Negative. “And then the pattern starts all over again.” The Sugars discuss and share their own struggles with body image.
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  • WBUR podcasts, Boston.

  • The universe has good news for the lost, lonely and heartsick.

  • The sugars are here speaking straight into your ears.

  • I'm Steve almond.

  • I'm Cheryl strayed.

  • This is dear sugars.

  • Oh, dear.

  • So won't you please share some little sweetness with me?

  • I check my bell eyes every day.

  • Oh, and the sugar you see in my way.

  • Dear sugars, I've been on and off diets for 25 years.

  • I don't think I can string two days together when I was not starting a diet, thinking about starting a diet on a diet or falling off the wagon.

  • The goal of my first diet was to fit into a pair of guest jeans.

  • I was in fifth or 6th grade at the time of that first diet, and guest jeans were popular.

  • I'd fantasize about buying the jeans and wearing them to school with my shirt tucked in so that all of the kids could see the symbol on my back pocket.

  • I never lost enough weight to buy those jeans.

  • Over time, they became a symbol of what losing weight would feel and look like for me.

  • Guest jeans turned into a new basketball uniform to play on the team in junior high, new jeans for my first day of college, or a whole new me for law school.

  • After 25 years of dieting, I feel like an accidental expert.

  • But I'm so tired of it.