Encore: Career Vs. Love

Dear Sugars

情感与人际关系

2023-03-25

33 分钟
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You love your partner, you love your career... but they're pulling you in different directions. What do you do? In this favorite episode from the archives, The Sugars have help from psychotherapist and sociologist Leslie Bell, author of Hard to Get: 20-Something Women and the Paradox of Sexual Freedom. This episode was originally released on April 13th, 2017.
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  • WBUR podcasts, Boston.

  • The universe has good news for the lost, lonely and heartsick Sugar is here, the both of us speaking straight into your ears.

  • I'm Cheryl strayed.

  • I'm Steve Almond.

  • This is Dear Sugar radio.

  • Oh, dear song, won't you please share some little sweetness with me?

  • I check my bell eyes every day.

  • Oh, in the sugar you see in my way.

  • Hi, Cheryl.

  • Hi, Steve.

  • So, you know, in our inbox, we get lots of letters from people who are looking for love or whose relationship is imperiled in some way.

  • And we also get a certain number of letters, an increasing number of letters from people who are actually thrilled with the relationship they're in, which we always think, oh, great, fantastic.

  • And then, of course, because it's the dear sugar radio, there's that one thing, but there's that big b u t.

  • And in this case, that thing is their career goals.

  • We're going to hear a couple of letters from women who are really quite ecstatic about the relationships they're in, but who also have specific career goals that in their minds and in the world are complicating and imperiling this happy relationship that they're in.

  • Has that ever happened to you?

  • I know, you know, listeners of the show know you and Brian have a great relationship, but they also know that you have a high powered career.

  • Were those two, in your mind and or heart, ever enemies?

  • I haven't generally struggled with this in my relationship with Brian because, of course, he is also a freelance artist and I'm a writer.

  • He's a filmmaker.