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Dear Sugars

情感与人际关系

2020-09-12

36 分钟
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The Sugars find out what happened to two letter writers who let self-image sabotage their love lives. They find out if “Scared to Choose Wrong” married her fiancé, and they give “Aspiring Warrior for Love” a call to see how he’s changed since hearing the Sugars’ advice more than a year ago. This episode was originally published on February 3rd, 2018.
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  • Produced by the ilab at Wbur Boston.

  • The universe has good news for the lost, lonely and heartsick.

  • The sugars are here speaking straight into your ears.

  • I'm Steve Almond.

  • I'm Cheryl strayed.

  • This is dear sugars.

  • Oh dear song won't you please share some little sweetness with me?

  • I check my bell rides every day oh, and the sugar you see in my way.

  • Hi, Steve.

  • Hi, Cheryl.

  • So here we are, part two of our updates episodes.

  • If you didn't listen last week, what we're doing in these two parts is looking back at some of the letters we've answered on past episodes and following up with those people to see what happened next.

  • I know so many people, just like Steve and I, we are always curious when we give that advice, what changes are going to be made or resisted, what advice is going to be taken or ignored, and we're going to delve more deeply into that today on this episode.

  • Now, one of the things that we've introduced in this past year is we started a column back in July, the sweet spot.

  • It runs in the New York times, the actual paper, every Thursday in the style section.

  • And it can be found online every Tuesday, the Tuesday before it actually appears in the newspaper.

  • And we try to really choose letters that in some ways echo or evoke the subject of the episode that runs that same week that the column runs.

  • And we get responses.

  • We tend to linger a bit more on the praise, but we remember the criticism because, not that we assume that we always get it right, but in a way, those are the letters that we get that kind of make us realize, like, oh, we didn't see it from all angles.

  • Yeah.