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Dear Sugars fans, I'm Charles Duhigg, the host of a podcast named how to, and we have a special treat for you.
Cheryl strayed was recently on an episode of how to.
Cheryl talks with a woman who is trying to figure out how to decide whether she should have a baby or not.
We'd love to encourage you to keep listening, to find out how Cheryl helped her.
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I think what we're both struggling with here, honestly, is that we don't really have language for actually telling the truth, to have clarity and certainty about becoming a parent.
I think most people don't, frankly.
And even me saying that out loud to you right now, I'm like, but I love them.
I love you, honey.
You're wonderful.
You're everything to me.
Welcome to how to.
I'm Charles Dubick.
Each week we talk to listeners who are trying to figure out how to solve one of life's problems.
And then we do some research and we track down an expert and we get their advice.
And usually the way that we learn about a problem is that they send us an email at Howto.
And in fact, that's how we heard from this week's listeners who had emailed us, actually, from halfway across the world.
Let's see.