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Sugar is here, the both of us speaking straight into your ears.
I'm Cheryl strayed.
I'm Steve Almond.
This is Dear Sugar radio.
Oh, dear song, won't you please.
Share some little sweet names with me?
I check my bell vibes every day oh, and the sugar you see in my way.
Hi, Steve.
Hi, Cheryl.
It's part two of our series on family secrets.
This week we're gonna talk about discovering a secret, and I was curious about learning more about your brother.
You mentioned you discovered a secret from your twin brother.
Yeah, he came out and I think the sort of narrative in people's heads, or even when I say that, I sort of see a family gathering and the announcement is made and there's a new understanding and order in the family.
That is not the way that it worked in my family.
And I don't think actually, in most families, when a secret is revealed, it's tentative.
It's to individuals, oftentimes, and, you know, strategically deciding who gets to know when.
With my brother, it's very striking.
Even the manner in which he came out to me was, in a certain way, not veiled, exactly, but it was obscured.