The Infidelity Episodes: The Other Woman

Dear Sugars

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2016-04-25

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The Sugars return with another installment in the Infidelity Episodes — looking at the often-overlooked experience of the other woman. After the Sugars had taken on the Betrayed and the Betrayers, they received dozens of letters from women struggling to make sense of what it means to be involved in a cheating situation, while being neither the one who cheats nor the one who is cheated upon.
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  • Dear sugar is supported by.

  • O dear song.

  • Won't you please.

  • Share some little sweet names with me?

  • I check my bell vibes every day.

  • Oh, and the sugar you see in my way.

  • Steve.

  • Cheryl, have you ever been the third point in an infidelity triangle by which I mean the other man?

  • No.

  • I wanted to.

  • I crushed hard on a married woman and had, in fact, a beautiful but chilling experience with this woman who I had crushed on for years.

  • And then I went to visit this couple, and they were going through a certain kind of upheaval.

  • And late one night, nothing ever happened.

  • But I felt for the first time after the husband had gone to bed, there was a moment that I have commemorated in some awful poem and thought about for years, where I realized that this person who I had psychically been chasing around for so long and coveting was actually because of turmoil within her marriage, ready to have physical sexual contact with me.

  • Or at least it seemed very clear.

  • And I got very frightened and kind of freaked out by it.

  • My bluff was called and I backed away from the situation.

  • But it has been rattling around inside for, you know, still is, because it was a real moment of realizing that I was transgressing.

  • And unlike many third points, I knew both and loved and still love both of those people.

  • Is that why you backed away, because of your allegiance to the husband?