Looking For The One, Part 2: The Reality

Dear Sugars

情感与人际关系

2016-01-23

49 分钟
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The Sugars have been avoiding the most frequently asked question they receive from women: Will I ever find the one? In the first episode, they explored the anxieties around that question. In Part 2, they focus on a particular anxiety that comes up over and over in letters from advice-seekers who have begun to question their past and present relationship decisions — should I settle?
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  • Dear sugar is supported by.

  • The universe has good news for the lost, lonely and heartsick sugar is here, the both of us speaking straight into your ears.

  • I'm Cheryl strayed.

  • I'm Steve Almond.

  • This is dear sugar radio.

  • Oh, dear son, won't you please share some little sweetness with me?

  • I check my bell vibes every day.

  • Oh, in the sugar you see in my way.

  • Hey, Cheryl.

  • Hi, Steve.

  • So here we are.

  • Week two of our one is the loneliest number episode we're doing.

  • As you know, we spoke last week about this anxiety that so many young women have.

  • We get all of these letters, will I ever find the one?

  • And this week we're talking about the reality.

  • Many times, anxieties are rooted in nothing and not rooted in fact, but sometimes they are rooted in fact.

  • And I think that this has become a real question for a lot of women who are saying to us, you know, maybe it is too hard.

  • They're looking around and seeing, especially women who are approaching 40 or in the neighborhood of that age, saying, it looks to me like all of the men I know in my situation are finding women to partner with, and I'm not right.

  • And this is what my experience is showing me.

  • And we can talk round and round about feelings, but we also need to talk about the real set of factors that do weigh in when you are trying to decide whether to make a life for, you know, attempt a life with somebody or not.