Dear Sugar: I'm Bad At Breaking Up

Dear Sugars

情感与人际关系

2015-04-12

15 分钟
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In this short episode, the Sugars take a question from a young man whose ex-girlfriends have felt blindsided when he ended the relationships. He is questioning his intuition - having ended the relationships because he felt there wasn't a future with these women, but wondering if he just wasn't articulating his needs to them.
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  • Dear sugar is supported by.

  • The universe has good news for the lost, lonely and heartsick sugar is here, the both of us speaking straight into your ears.

  • I'm Cheryl strayed.

  • I'm Steve Almond.

  • This is Dear Sugar Radio.

  • Oh dear song, won't you please share some little sweetness with me?

  • I check my bell vibes every day.

  • Oh, and the sugar you send my way.

  • Dear sugar, I'm a 30 year old male dealing with confusion about romantic relationships in my life.

  • Throughout my teens and early twenties, I was flying solo.

  • No real relationships to speak of.

  • I was very lonely.

  • This was mostly due to my lack of confidence and self worth.

  • Through therapy, traveling, and generally becoming comfortable with myself, I've grown immensely.

  • In the past few years.

  • I've had two great relationships with two attractive and interesting women, both of which I decided to end based on deep seated feelings I had that a long term future with them would be unhappy.

  • You talk a lot about intuition and trusting your gut in romantic relationships.

  • What I am struggling with is the fine line between trusting my gut and clearly communicating with my partner what I want and need out of a relationship in order to improve it.

  • When I ended these relationships, both breakups felt like I blindsided them.

  • I was accused of terrible communication skills and confusing signals, the partner not knowing what they did wrong or not understanding me.