How To Make Amends

如何做出修正

Hidden Brain

社会科学

2023-03-28

51 分钟
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When James and Donovan first met, they knew little about each other, except that Donovan had stolen James' bike. Donovan got caught, and spent a month in jail. It was a story with a happy ending, as far as James was concerned. But then he found out, nearly a decade later, what happened to Donovan after his conviction. This week on the show, we look at the unexpected aftermath of a crime, and what happens when adversaries meet in conversation instead of a courtroom.
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  • This is hidden brain.

  • I'm Shankar Vedantam.

  • All of us form quick impressions of the strangers we meet.

  • We do this automatically and unconsciously, and we do this all the time.

  • We categorize people into nice and not so nice, friendly and unhelpful.

  • Much of the time.

  • These quick conclusions are partly true and partly exaggerated.

  • They are caricatures of people we barely know.

  • Our tendency to draw quick conclusions is especially powerful when the strangers we encounter do something to hurt us.

  • Think about the last time someone stepped on your foot as you were leaving a crowded theater.

  • Or the time a motorist nearly hit you as you are crossing a pedestrian intersection.

  • Or when someone stole something from you.

  • At such times, we can't help but imagine how terrible this person must be when they are not stepping on our toes or being a reckless driver, or being a thief.

  • Today on the program, an unusual story about two strangers who first met as adversaries.

  • Like all of us, they came to quick conclusions about each other.

  • But then, nearly a decade later, each man had the opportunity to pull the curtain back on the other's life.

  • How the simple act of conversation can transform the way we see each other.

  • This week on hidden brain, James Carter still remembers the bike.

  • It was a Trek 7.3 fx in blue with fenders, a tow hitch and a bike pump and a water bottle holder.

  • It was a great bike.