Made of Honor

伴娘

Hidden Brain

社会科学

2023-03-21

47 分钟
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Stories help us make sense of the world, and can even help us heal from trauma. They also shape our cultural narratives, for better and for worse. This week, we revisit a favorite 2021 conversation with psychologist Ryan Brown, who explores the phenomenon of “honor culture” and how it dictates our beliefs and behaviors.
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  • This is hidden brain.

  • I'm Shankar Vedantam.

  • When they were teenagers, Ryan Brown and four of his friends decided to visit a really old graveyard.

  • It was midnight, and they all piled onto an ATV belonging to his friend David.

  • And this atv is really just made for one person.

  • So it's a vehicle with one big wheel in the front, two big wheels in the back, and David was driving.

  • The rest of us were all kind of piled onto the back, sitting on top of the wheel.

  • Guards, they took off down a dark country road.

  • There are no streetlights.

  • He's going about as fast as he possibly can, and nobody's wearing a helmet.

  • So if we crash, we're all dead.

  • Fearing for his life, Ryan spoke up.

  • And I said to David over the road noise, the engine noise, it'd really be nice if you'd slow down a bit.

  • And he decided that was actually a great opportunity to turn off the headlights.

  • So we're on this dark country road, no lighting, no seat belts, no helmets.

  • Ryan panicked.

  • I kind of freak out.

  • I'm thinking he's going to kill us on the way to a graveyard, no less.

  • So I start yelling at him and telling him he needs to slow down, he needs to turn the lights back on, and he is having none of it.

  • He feels threatened.