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Hidden Brain

社会科学

2022-03-18

49 分钟
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Social media sites offer quick and easy ways to share ideas, crack jokes, find old friends. They can make us feel part of something big and wonderful and fast-moving. But the things we post don’t go away. And they can come back to haunt us. Today, we revisit a 2019 episode about one teenager’s social media posts, and how they destroyed an opportunity he’d worked for all his life.
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  • This is hidden brain.

  • I'm Shankar Vedantam.

  • People make mistakes, small ones, big ones, sometimes irreversible ones.

  • It used to be that passing judgment on mistakes was mostly the domain of judges and prosecutors, the courts, and the confessional.

  • But in our raucous, busy, social media dominated world, all of us today are called upon to pass judgment on strangers.

  • Should the writer who plagiarized a story get a second chance?

  • Does the manager who embezzle money deserve another job?

  • Should the contrite cheater receive forgiveness?

  • The court of public opinion, as it's called, is not a court in the ordinary sense of the term.

  • Each of us has our own rulebook, our own constitution.

  • We are not required to weigh all the facts, and we are allowed to reach conclusions based on our own histories of wrongdoing, pain, and resentment.

  • Given that we are filtering the mistakes and misdemeanors of others through the prism of our own baggage, it's small wonder that we often disagree with the conclusions of others.

  • Back in 2019, when we first released the episode you're about to hear, I was fascinated by the range of responses that we received from listeners.

  • As you listen to the story, pay close attention to your reactions and what they might reveal, not just about the story, but about you.

  • Through the looking glass of public opinion.

  • This week on hidden brain.

  • Beauty sometimes appears in unexpected places.

  • I'm sitting in a low chair woven from bungee cord, staring at the crumpled sheets of an unmade bed.

  • To my right is is a desk cluttered with textbooks, a stick of deodorant, and a half eaten jar of Nutella.

  • The room has the slight, tangy smell of a gym locker.