The Lonely American Man

孤独的美国男人

Hidden Brain

社会科学

2019-10-15

46 分钟
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Boys get the message at a young age: don't show your feelings. Don't rely on anyone. This week, we bring you a favorite 2018 episode about misguided notions of masculinity in the United States. We explore how these notions create stressed-out romantic relationships, physical health problems, and a growing epidemic of loneliness. Plus, we consider how we might begin to tell a different story about what it means to be a man.
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  • This is hidden brain.

  • I'm Shankar Vedantam.

  • It's a Friday evening at an apartment in lower Manhattan.

  • Two friends are looking forward to unwinding after a long week.

  • Their names are Ansel Scholl and Matthias Corona.

  • And they can teach us all something about friendship.

  • They've been friends for half their lives.

  • Like seven years.

  • No, because if it's second grade, third grade, fourth grade, fifth grade, 6th grade, 7th grade, six years.

  • Six years doing the math, that means they're now twelve.

  • And, like, ever since second grade, we've been close friends.

  • By fourth grade, I mean, I knew that this was gonna be my best friend.

  • Their best friendship has involved doing lots of homework together, video games.

  • We facetime.

  • We help each other.

  • He helps me, I help him.

  • We give each other advice.

  • Sleepovers, like the one they're going to have tonight.

  • And legos.

  • You have to push it, I think you have to push it.