You 2.0: Getting Unstuck

你2.0:摆脱困境

Hidden Brain

社会科学

2017-08-29

27 分钟
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At one time or another, many of us feel stuck: in the wrong job, the wrong relationship, the wrong city – the wrong life. Psychologists and self-help gurus have all kinds of advice for us when we feel rudderless. This week on Hidden Brain, we conclude our You 2.0 series with a favorite episode exploring a new idea from an unlikely source: Silicon Valley.
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  • Hey there, Shankar here.

  • We've spent the last several weeks exploring a series of ideas about how you can use social science research to make your life better.

  • If you've missed those episodes, go back and listen to them.

  • We've looked at how you can make work more meaningful, the importance of limiting distractions, and a scientifically proven technique to achieve your most important goals.

  • Today's episode is the last one in the series.

  • We first put it out in January this year.

  • It asks a very important question.

  • If you happen to find yourself in a blind alley, nowhere to turn, you're frustrated, dejected.

  • What psychological techniques can help you get unstuck?

  • This is hidden brain.

  • I'm Shankar Vedantam.

  • Many of us feel we are not leading the lives we were meant to lead, that we're not living our dreams, that life is passing us by.

  • This sense of doubt leaves many of us feeling rudderless, confused, and stuck.

  • I put a lot of pressure on myself to make sure that I made the exact right decision.

  • Today, we're going to explore the psychological traps we construct for ourselves that keep us from living our best lives.

  • For many years, Christine Metzger thought she knew what she wanted to do with her life.

  • But after more than a decade working in education administration, she woke up one day and realized she wasn't the person she wanted to be.

  • She didn't know exactly who she did want to be, but she was certain that that ideal version of Christine was out there.

  • She just had to find her.

  • She stumbled on what seemed like the perfect opportunity.