2024-04-15
1 小时 5 分钟It's not that great couples don't fight.
It's that they just fight differently.
They actually fight in a way where the conflict is resolving something that is alchemizing or merging two worlds into creating something separate.
And that's why, like a third perspective is always more brilliant when created from two separate ones.
Listen, frictions are going to come up always and forever, hopefully.
But it's like we turn towards those and we allow those frictions to invite in deeper parts of ourselves that we maybe haven't yet met or touched or examined in relationships so that they can have a seat at the table, too.
Yeah, it makes me think of the quote from Harville Hendricks and Helen Hunt where they say that you're born in a relationship, you're wounded in relationship, and you heal in relationship.
So have you ever felt trapped in a relationship that just wasn't serving you?
Kind of like you were conforming to someone else's expectations of who you should be instead of embracing who you actually are?
Or maybe just wanting to be accepted so badly that you'd give up a part of yourself to make it happen?
Most of us have been there at some point.
We adapt and contort ourselves to fit an ideal that was never meant for us in the first place.
But what if it didn't have to be that way?
What if being utterly you, loving freely and openly, and seeing your relationship as not only a place of deep connection, but a place where safety and healing was the secret to finding true connection, not hiding, but actually being completely openly you.
My guests today, Mark Rose and Kylie Macbeth, believe it is in their new book, liberated Love.
Release codependent patterns and create the love you desire.
As a human connection specialist and founder of Create the love, Mark has guided countless people in improving their most important relationships, and Kylie, host of the Journey Home podcast, shares her wisdom on spirituality and self empowerment.
Together, they have distilled their combined expertise into this practical guide for finding freedom to be yourself within your relationships instead of freedom from them.
It begins with understanding where codependent behavior originates and how to heal it from there.
Mark and Kylie offer some really powerful tools and insights for setting boundaries, improving communication, and ultimately liberating the truest version of yourself.