2023-05-18
1 小时 6 分钟There are domains where you're not allowed to fail, or when you do fail culturally, that's seen as a moral blemish.
And that's very damaging, obviously, for all sorts of reasons, because failure does happen.
It's inevitable.
And if failing is such a moral stain in that domain, it means you're going to try less often, you're going to take fewer risks, you're going to grow more slowly, if at all.
You're going to stagnate, and you'll be stuck in the comfort of not ever having to try anything that requires that you potentially expose yourself to failure.
And so it's just a different flavor of stuckness, but it's still being stuck.
I think of always succeeding as a kind of stuckness, too.
It's not the way to live a life, it's the way to live a moment.
It's nice to succeed in the moment, but a string of unbroken successes that involve no change, no pushing against boundaries.
It's not a good way to live.
It's not a good way to build meaning.
So have you ever felt stuck in literally any part of your life?
Trapped in a soul sucking job, an unfulfilling relationship, health, fitness or performance plateau?
Or maybe a creative rut?
Well, what if there was a way to tap scientifically validated principles to get unstuck, to break free from the invisible forces holding you back and really unleash your full potential?
I mean, what if you could literally engineer breakthroughs?
Well, it turns out you actually can, once you understand many of the hidden dynamics that keep us stuck in the first place and how to move through them.
And our guest today on our journey to getting unstuck is Adam Alter, a professor at NYU's Stern School of Business, New York Times best selling author and a true expert in the realm of human behavior.
Adam was voted professor of the year at NYU Stern School of Business and landed on the poets and quants 40 best professors under 40 list.
And his latest book is Anatomy of a how to get unstuck when it matters most.