How Not to Be Defined by Your Worst Moment | Shaka Senghor [Best of]

如何不被你最糟糕的时刻定义|Shaka Senghor[最佳选择]

Good Life Project

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2023-04-17

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I’m fascinated by the idea of snap decisions, how some can lead to amazing outcomes, and others can destroy lives. What you so often find is that nothing actually happens in a moment, there is no real snap, but rather a series of experiences leading up to it, often years in the making, were as much authors of the moment as the instance itself. And, sometimes, when those moments lead to something you’ll regret for a lifetime, you get to the next question - what is recoverable - redeemable - how do you make that happen, and who gets to write the story of your reclamation?  This is the powerful thru line of my conversation with Shaka Senghor, New York Times bestselling author of Writing My Wrongs: Life, Death, and Redemption in an American Prison. He took another young man’s life at the age of 19, served the next two decades in prison, 7 in solitary, and through a series of awakenings, began to unwind the pieces of his life and begin the process of understanding, reassembling and eventually redemption.  His latest book, Letters to the Sons of Society: A Father's Invitation to Love, Honesty, and Freedom invites men everywhere on a journey of honesty and healing through this book of moving letters to his sons. So excited to share this 'Best of' conversation with you today. You can find Shaka at: Website | Instagram If you LOVED this episode you’ll also love the conversations we had with Father Greg Boyle and Fabian Debora about the power of redemption and expression. Check out our offerings & partners:  My New Book SparkedMy New Podcast SPARKED. To submit your “moment & question” for consideration to be on the show go to sparketype.com/submit. Visit Our Sponsor Page For Great Resources & Discount Codes  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  • I think love is the greatest liberating tool ever, and my goal is to leverage it more and to leverage the understanding of it for my sons so that they can navigate life unimpeded by narratives that really don't belong to them.

  • So I've always been kind of fascinated by the idea of snap decisions or these things happen in just a moment, how some can lead to amazing outcomes and others can lead to literally destroy lives in the blink of an eye.

  • And what you so often find is that nothing actually ever happens in a moment.

  • There is no real snap, but rather a series of experiences leading up to it, often years in the making, where they're as much the authors of the moment as the instance itself.

  • And sometimes when those moments lead to something you regret for a lifetime, then you get to the next question, what is recoverable, redeemable?

  • How do you make that happen?

  • And who gets to write the story of your own reclamation?

  • This is the powerful subtext of my conversation with Shaka Senghor, New York Times bestselling author of righting my wrongs, life, death and redemption in an American Prison.

  • A leading voice on criminal justice reform, tech investor, head of diversity, equality and inclusion at Trip Actions, former MIT Media lab directors, fellow and member of Oprah Winfrey's Super Soul 100.

  • He took another young man's life at the age of 19, served the next two decades almost in prison, seven in solitary, and through a series of unexpected awakenings, began to unwind the pieces of his life and begin the process of understanding and reassembling and eventually redemption and reclamation.

  • In the decades since his release from prison, he has started and worked with nonprofits seeking to lift people up, visited the White House, been interviewed by Trevor Noah and Oprah Winfrey, and given award winning TED talks, all with the goal of building a more inspired, just and fulfilling future for all.

  • So excited to share this best of conversation with you.

  • I'm Jonathan Fields and this is good life project.

  • Just so curious about so many different moments in your life.

  • And I really want to dive into some of the ideas that you have been working with and sharing over the years.

  • Now, let's take a little bit of a step back in time because there's a lot that set up the moment that you've come to in your life and the ideas that you've been working with and the creative things that you have been exploring.

  • I know you describe yourself, you grew up in Detroit as a curious and precocious kid.

  • Yeah.

  • Yeah.

  • You know, when I reflect back on my childhood, I think about all these random things.